Jenni Muldaur
Musician
NYC
How old do you want to live to be?
95
Do you have a fantasy funeral?
Good music and food a party. Friends
What scares you the most about dying?
Not being able to be here. To see what happens.
What would your 3 pieces of wisdom be for the those left behind?
Don’t waste time
Enjoy your youth
Be true to yourself
If you had a destination funeral where would it be?
Martha’s Vineyard
Where would you want your ashes spread?
A little in Mill valley
Martha’s Vineyard
Ocean
Snake rock
Top 5 songs to play at your funeral?
Sleep walk
Jesus- velvet underground
Some music by my mom and dad
And some lightning Hopkins
Open casket wake? Burial? Cremation?
Organic burial. They have some tree burials now
If you could live forever, would you want to?
Kind of what I’m doing now!
Where do you think you go once you die?
Into infinite energy source
If there is a heaven who are 3 people you would like to hang out with there?
Lou reed
Pierce
Hal
Do you believe in ghosts?
Not exactly
If reincarnation is real what do you want to come back as?
A better version of myself.
What are three words you hope people use to describe you when you are gone?
Loving
That I show up for friends
Talented ;-)
Biggest regret in life?
Car crash that smashed my head, so that I went out that night
What are some things that helped you through grief?
Letting go. Letting people leave
Best advice someone gave to you?
I was the one giving advice I think. I get serene about death.
Did meditation, friends, food help you the most?
All of the above
How was navigating the funeral home system and what’s your advice?
I enjoyed the Italian one that my Italian relatives were at. Like a movie.
If you were to give someone 1 piece of advice on grief what would it be?
It passes.
