Believe that you are surrounded by your loved ones and that they are still watching out for you...keep your eyes open for small miracles that they send you.
I want to be cremated and ashes scattered in the ocean somewhere between Bridgehampton and Amagansett and in Nauvoo, Tennessee.
Everyone will have to wear couture to my funeral. Then the people closest to me will have to mourn for a year like 19th century Sicilian widows. The more drama the better.